3 More Must Read Books on Blowjobs

In honor of Dick & Dildo December, we kick off the month with wonderful books on giving mind-blowing... blowjobs. We've got a lot to say about sex books, we've offered ideas for wonderful books on tantra, cunnilingus books, books on making your marriage divorce-proof and we'll continue to offer a lot more ideas in the coming weeks and months! And this upcoming list comes from who else but our resident idea maker, GetLusty staff writer Stephanie Vanderwall.

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As a follow-up to 3 Must-Read Books on Blowjobs, we decided to pick out three more awesome reads on the topic of fellatio. Those of us with a predilection for penis like to think we’ve got the whole thing mastered. Even so, there are always new things to learn! These books have some great tips and exercises (yes, exercises) to get you in top blowjob form.

#1 Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex

By Marcy Michaels and Marie Desalle

Keep him begging for more . . . It's nothing to be ashamed of. When it comes to performing oral sex, most people fall somewhere between fumbling and clueless. But now, in Blow Him Away you'll find practical, easy-to-master techniques that will give you the confidence and skills you need to become an expert in the delicate art of fellatio.

When it comes to getting yourself ready to blow your man’s…err…mind, this book doesn’t mess around! The authors have included: exercises to whip your tongue, lips, and jaw into shape so you can perform with exquisite control; sensual kisses to get you both ready for the main event; no-nonsense instructions for how to perform sensational oral sex, blow-by-blow; advice on how to keep your mind from spoiling your head; and positions that will make his knees melt.

Author, Joan Price, says: “Twenty line drawings illustrate positions and techniques. This earthy, graphic guide to fellatio is lively, clever, and fun to read. And your partner will appreciate it.”

“If you truly want to learn and improve and PLEASE your partner...WOW...this will definitely do the trick. Warning—you will have homework and practice...as I am typing I am doing one of the exercises now. ALSO, just informing your partner you are reading such material will give you major brownie points! …It’s one of those books you will want to keep for later reference when you are done.” –Satisfied Amazon Reader

#2 Best Oral Sex Ever – Her Guide to Going Down

By Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D.

Just because she's going down doesn't mean he's having all the fun. "Sexpert" author Yvonne K. Fulbright gets real with women in this bold book on giving and getting oral sex. This guide tackles the dirty taboos and awkward assumptions that keep fellatio from being seductive and satisfying.

You will enjoy giving oral sex as much as men enjoy getting it when you learn: breathing techniques to last longer, positions he'll love, like "The Starfish" and "Deep-Throating", how to give (and receive) multiple orgasms from oral sex, and how to talk about what they feel is right and wrong. Armed with sexy self-confidence and an arsenal of tongue-twisting tips, you will discover exactly how delightful the plunder down-under can be.

One goodreads reviewer wrote: “I borrowed this from Amazon's lending library. It was entertaining, and I liked the reminder to not focus so much on the mechanics of the act- it's ultimately erotic to love your partner that way, so enjoy the eroticism! Good point. A lot of sex instruction is rigid and demanding; Yvonne Fulbright keeps the book light and aims to encourage pleasure over checklists of techniques. This book was worth my time for that reason alone.”

“Book was fun from page one. Of course there are things you know, but just because you know doesn’t mean that you’re still doing it…” –Amazon Customer

#3 Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget: 52 Positions and Techniques Guaranteed to Blow Your Man Away

By Sonia Borg

Your mother probably told you that the way to your man’s heart is through his stomach…actually; it’s a few inches lower. Getting great head is the best predictor of a man’s sexual satisfaction. This ultimate oral sex guide teaches you all the tricks you need to take fellatio from ho-hum to red-hot.

Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget gives 50+ unique fellatio experiences from start to finish. You’ll learn how to combine positions, mouth moves, hand strokes, sex toys, seduction and setting to create the ultimate oral sex experience. Surprise your lover with something new and exciting like The Rock Star BJ: His fantasy and (secretly) yours, The Deep Throat BJ: When you want to go all the way, or The On-the-Rocks BJ: Toe-tingling sensations that will leave him shaken and stirred.

The book includes sexy photography and detailed illustrations that show you exactly how to hit his hot spots and perform each move like a pro. With Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget you’ll be the mistress of his domain.

According to Charla Hathaway, author of Erotic Massage and 8 Erotic Nights, this is “Clearly a book where women take charge and men let go, Dr. Sonia instructs dynamic scenarios where both the giver and receiver of oral sex enjoy heightened moments of power and surrender and the pure pizzazz of innovative pleasure—each scene supported by accurate and positive sex information.”

Stephanie has long believed she is a gay man trapped in a woman's body. She is a lover of good food, good sex and good grammar. A recent transplant to Chicago, she spends her free time with her super-duper-fly boyfriend and their three "kids" (2 cats, 1 dog). She has a blog she writes in every so often. She's still trying to get the whole Twitter thing down, but you can follow her @Vanderfloozie. Want to get in touch with her? Email stephanie@getlusty.com.

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Couples! 3 Must Read Erotica Books

Here at GetLusty, we're all about helping couples put an end to boring sex. And what better way to get those lusty wheels turning than by reading some steamy erotica? The beauty of erotica is that, not only does it make reading in bed incredibly sexy, but it also gets your creative juices flowing. It's almost impossible not to envision the erotic scenario about which you're reading. For this installment, we've chosen three books that couples can enjoy together. Each book boasts an eclectic mix of erotica, guaranteed to get even the tamest couple hot and bothered! GetLusty's Stephanie Kathleen has done extensive research to find the best. Read on!

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Whether you're into BDSM, kink, role-playing or "normal" sex, these books have something for everyone; and that's why they're our favorites.

#1 Anything For You: Erotica for Kinky Couples
By: Rachel Kramer Bussel

Rachel Kramer Bussel is at the top of her game in BDSM erotica and now shares the pleasure in a one-of-a-kind book, custom-made for couples. Anything For You is stimulating reading, both for experienced players and those just discovering the joy of tying up your lover, or bending over for the one you love. These explicit stories unlock the door to a world of obsessive desires and a passion that lies just beneath the skin.

Bondage is the stuff of fantasy for a shockingly large portion of the population, and true happiness is discovering what makes your partner really tick. In this case, it might well be the tickle of rope on naked skin, or a firm paddling. Anything For You is a guidebook to kink, told story by delicious story of uninhibited, adventurous sex. Each boldly wrought tale shared with your lover is another door opened into the erotic mindscape.

“Anything For You is a sensually thrilling, deliciously explicit, and diverse collection of erotica geared towards sexually adventurous couples looking for new inspiration. … I was very happy to find that this book easily balances a wide range of sexual fantasies and a healthy mix of sexual orientations all geared towards those couples who like bondage and sex toys in their relationships. This is yet another exciting collection of tales that will keep you up into the wee hours of the morning.” – Night Owl Reviews

#2 Sweet Confessions: Erotic Fantasies for Couples
By: Violet Blue

Violet Blue is simply the best in the business when it comes to erotica for couples. She edits with both a sharp eye and a knack for what lovers are looking for - sweet and surprising scenarios. In Sweet Confessions, the lust-inciting fantasies include spanking, exhibitionism, role-playing, three-ways, and sexy adventures that will inspire real couples to reach new heights of passion. In Violet Blue's own words, "The stories I've chosen are explicit, well thought-out, cleverly crafted, and arousing as hell. Trust me. I tried it at home."

One satisfied Amazon customer raves: “While you'll certainly find your "normal" fantasy stories such as kink, threesomes, or role-playing, the book also provides more unique situations such as Internet flirting, Little Red Riding Hood role-play, a woman wanting to watch her partner flirt and be with another man, and tons of other stuff. Violet Blue did a great job of selecting stories that really play off one another while still keeping each story original and unique. I've read a ton of erotic anthology books, and I haven't read a single one of these stories before which is always good.”

#3 Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica
By: Tristan Taormino

In mainstream media, the erotic identities, sex lives, and fantasies of transgender and genderqueer people are often oversimplified, sensationalized, or invisible. Take Me There is an erotica collection unlike any other that celebrates the pleasure, heat, and diversity of transgender and genderqueer sexualities. The power of seeing and being seen is a central theme in the anthology; it’s not simply about passing or not passing (an idea often explored with transgender characters), but about being acknowledged and desired in a sexual context.

Take Me There features such renowned authors as Kate Bornstein (Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation), Patrick Califia (Speaking Sex to Power), S. Bear Bergman (Butch is a Noun), Ivan Coyote (Missed Her), Julia Serrano (Whipping Girl), Laura Antoniou (The Marketplace), Helen Boyd (My Husband Betty), Rachel Kramer Bussel (Gotta Have It), Toni Amato (Pinned Down by Pronouns), Alicia E. Goranson (Supervillainz), filmmaker Tobi Hill-Meyer, musician Rahne Alexander, songwriter Shawna Virago, bloggers Andrea Zanin and Sinclair Sexsmith, and more.

Genderqueer porn star, Jiz Lee, says: "As someone who is androgynous-identified, it feels positively monumental to hold in my hands an erotica anthology where trans* desire is not the token, but the topic! In making our desires visible -- within our own communities and beyond -- our gender expressions, our fantasies, our very lives are made real. Take Me There brings us HERE."

“Yes, yes—oh god YES! Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica finally satisfies a longtime craving of the genderfucked and genderfucking to accurately articulate the complexities of queer desire into raunchy written words. Edited by Tristan Taormino and flaunting big bylines like Kate Bornstein, Patrick Califia, and S. Bear Bergman, this queerotic collection refreshingly reflects that queer sex isn't just about gender-variant pronouns or redefined dirty bits, but about what you do with them. Having read the many diversely deviant entries in Take Me There, we'd advise reading this one with one hand." – BITCH Magazine

Stephanie has long believed she is a gay man trapped in a woman's body. She is a lover of good food, good sex and good grammar. A recent transplant to Chicago, she spends her free time with her super-duper-fly boyfriend and their three "kids" (2 cats, 1 dog).

She has a blog she writes in every so often. She's still trying to get the whole Twitter thing down, but you can follow her @Vanderfloozie. Want to get in touch with her? Email stephanie@getlusty.com.

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