This is another guest post by our UK-based Sara Albaladejo. She's passionate about sex and relationships, and has seen many of these mistakes by men recently. We've definitely seen these happen to good men. Don't be a victim to these mistakes. Read on!
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We love our men. We love them on top, under or behind. We love the way they make us feel sexy, their compliments and the nose/forehead kiss. They try hard to please us, and more than often they hit all the right spots. Unfortunately, sometimes they don’t. Those who care end up feeling discouraged and defeated and those who don’t leave a woman unsatisfied.
For both our male readers and for the women willing to point the right way to their lovers, we have brought five mistakes men should avoid doing.
Before sex
Problem #1: Way too much hair We like it trimmed as much as you do. Again, this is a matter of health and hygiene, but also of making things easier. The more skin you leave for her to explore, the more pleasure she can give you. She won’t be worried about suffocating and you will feel her touch all over.
Keeping up with your facial grooming, too. If your beard is the perfect impression of Tom Hanks in Cast Away, you may want to think about it twice. However, you can take advantage of your facial hair by rubbing it gently against her skin and create a pleasant new sensation. Watch out though, you don't want to sand down her nipples, and for some us with sensitive skin, it can cause annoying rashes.
Remedy: Trim
Keep your shaver handy and don't be afraid of using it down there, you will be surprised of the difference it makes! Keeping your dick area trimmed and tidy is good for several reasons. First, you'll feel more sensations. Second, your lovely cock will look even bigger and harder for your significant other.
Problem #2: Falling back on promises
You want her melting like a chocolate bar in the middle of the Sahara. The best thing to do to get her in the mood through the whole day: send her naughty texts or emails, allowing her imagination to go wild. If you can do this, you will be a really lucky man by the time she gets home. As long as you remember what you started at 10 am. You don't remember saying you want to make sweet, sweet love to me this evening? :(
Remedy: Put out the fire you start
Make sure that your day isn’t going to be the busiest and that you will get home rested enough to enjoy a good riding with your lady. If you are of the kind that always forgets stick a post-it or set an alarm, it will remind you of the good things waiting for you!
During sex
Problem #3: Dry humping
We like the teasing of the rubbing with clothes on, the delay before the skin-to-skin contact. To start the build-up of her orgasm it can be a great idea to touch her with her panties still on. However, jerking them around and giving your girl a wedgie isn’t pleasure, it hurts. Dry humping has its place, however, we recommend taking close off gently and lovingly for a better sexual experience. You know, because it works better that way.
Remedy: Undress lovingly
What I love? When my partner and I work together to undress each other. Either slowly or quickly, it's all about the intention. If you care about the experience, make sure you're thinking about yourself first. Do I feel great right now? Am I uncomfortable? Then, make your lover feel loved. Kiss them, caress them and note how gorgeous she is.
Problem #4: Taking overMen, have you ever felt that the responsibility of a good shag depends entirely on you? Women who enjoy their sexuality and having sex will want to be part of it as well. However, not all of us are confident enough to show our desire without your help, encourage your lover to explore your body and become more adventurous. Taking control is lovely, but sometimes can you give us a little?
Remedy: Lose control
Let yourself enjoy giving up the lead for a while, let us play. The only bad that could come of it is that she might have free reign of what you do. Does that make you afraid to loose control? It definitely makes sense, but don't let that get in the way of expanding your sexual horizons and having better sex!
After sex
Problem #5: Saying yes when you mean noSaying that women don't like sex as much as men isn't always true. Sometimes men aren't in the mood, too. Desire doesn't depend on your gender, I have seen totally able males rejecting sex without winking and women who aren’t satisfied with just having sex three times a week. It is something that shifts upon the person and their circumstances and has to be handled as such.
Remedy: Give yourself a break
Sometimes a man doesn't want to have sex. Since it takes two to tango, men should tell their significant others what they're feeling. Don't be ashamed if you aren't in the mood for sex. Tell us women why you're not interested in having sex. Give yourselves a break. Maybe you should kick your kids out for a weekend and enjoy some uninterrupted intimacy. We women also need to give men a break if they aren't in the mood. How about masturbating instead? He can watch, too!
Thanks to Woman Around Town for pic #1. Thanks to oplife for pic #2. Thanks Huffington Post for pic #2.
Sara is our resident, sexy British-Spanish writer. After finishing high school she followed the family tradition of becoming a teacher, and graduated as a Foreign Language Primary Teacher in 2011. Since then she has been living in the UK, where she copes with the British weather reading erotic stories with her loving boyfriend. She is passionate about writing and was awarded various contests in Spain (where she was born) and has also been recognized one of the best writers of her age in her region in 2010. She loves taking her camera out whenever she can, as photography is another of her hobbies.
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